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Out of the Shadows: The Psychology of Gay Men's Lives

by Walt Odets

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Published 7th May 2020, 368 pages
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‘Odets’s warm and lyrical voice, his inspiring picture of how imaginative gay life can be, has sent me queuing for the couch.’ Evening Standard

A gay man could read this book as if his life depended on it - and perhaps it does’ Andrew Holleran, author of
Dancer from the Dance

Even in our modern progressive world, it’s not easy to be a gay man. While young men often come out more readily, even those from the most liberal of backgrounds still struggle to accept themselves and experience stigma, shame and difficulties with intimate relationships. They also suffer from ongoing trauma wrought by the AIDS epidemic, something that is all too often relegated to history.

Drawing on a lifetime’s work as a clinical psychologist, Walt Odets uses the stories of his patients as well as those of his own deep relationships with other gay men to illuminate how these difficulties may be overcome. From a 74-year-old who only felt able to come out after his wife had died, to the boy raised in a strict religious family who worked his way to San Francisco, to the middle-aged defence lawyer who left everything behind to embrace a new life, the experiences here explore everything from grief to survival, childhood pain to the definition of gay itself. Out of the Shadows shows us how a new way forward is possible through learning to accept ourselves and others as they are, and independently inventing our own lives.

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Out of the Shadows: The Psychology of Gay Men's Lives
by Walt Odets

ISBN
9780141990149

Publisher
Penguin Books Ltd

Binding
Paperback

Publication date
May 7, 2020

Dimensions
19.8cm x 12.9cm x 2.1cm

Page count
368 pages